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How to understand women
For the beginning forget everything, that your male friends have told about women. Remember: women and men think differently! Things that work on you either don’t work on her, or work in a different way.
And on the contrary, things that are trifling for you have prime value for her.
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To persuade a woman is not an easy thing! Everything in its own time! Have main course first and after you will get a dessert. And if you snatch a dessert first – you will be punished. It's always better to know some dating tips first.
Generally speaking a glance of naked bodies doesn’t play a big role in women sex lives. They don’t watch and don’t like porno, and it is not a coquetry they just are not interested in this video.
Lot’s of women find that a man in a well sewed suit or military form excites them much more than a naked one. Some are excited when a man knots a tie.. or shaves with a straight razor.
You didn’t know that, did you?! I tell you this to prove that one thing can greatly influence one person and make no influence to others.
You “Understand” her – is the shortest way to a woman’s heart.
You think that to make women love you should be a macho man with strong muscles riding a fancy car?... It is not a fact. (Though if you are such kind of a fellow they won’t love you less). The most important – you need to “understand” them! But there is nothing to talk about. Have you ever heard that anyone “understood” her? And what does this word mean on the tongues of women? “To understand” is a kind of “ to compassionate”.
Women love to complain on their hard life, surrounded people, on the whole world! Complain and complain.
It’s such a reflex – they complain and then cease, as if they get it out of system and then they are happy to live. You shouldn’t take these complaints to close to your heart, or get nervous or to protest or to run shouting “I will manage everything!” But at the same time don’t ignore her.
“To understand” a woman means to listen her complaints. The most expensive gift for her is a gift of your attention. Who else can do that? Other women also want to complain, and men don’t have time for this and don’t care…In addition it’s not a hard job, just relax! It is she who is working this moment, with her tongue.
You just need to listen open-mouthed with compassionate face.
But don’t be like stone statue – perceive, react, absorb, from time to time pronounce sympathizing sound, like “Oh... Really...” Famous Russian classic A. Chekhov said: “If you want to tempt a woman, listen to her complaints”.
Women die for attention, breath with care and need “Love” – sentimental, romantic, weepy, about which you whisper on her ear...I imagine you saying: “Such a new woman. She is not stupid to bite all this!?”...” Don’t worry- she will! Let she be the most cool and new one, you can’t resist feminine nature. It is all genes. Now and 1000 years ago they want listen the same old song. Some certain words and phrases make hypnotic effect on a woman’s heart. You can be compared with a snake-charmer, who plays a pipe and a snake dance to it.
There an other question appears: “from where to take all this “romantic insanity”, if you were brought up differently on a boundary of 21 century. And Wild horses won't drag these words out of you.
It is easier to pull out a tooth, than to gasp "I Love You, Baby".
And with the more force men press out these hard words, the more women want to hear them.
Here we can see a deficit of romance that leads to nothing good.
Attention! I don’t encourage spreading like a jelly before a woman. It would be a tragic mistake as women don’t like sissies. They want feel a strong man in you who is tough with her. An ideal variant could be “understanding and at the same time harsh” man.
It means you are “sensitive” and understanding, but if needed you can show her your power.